自由、尊重、平衡

什麼是自由？想做什麼，便做什麼。
什麼是尊重？別人做什麼，讓別人做什麼。
以上包含一個條件，就是合法。夠了嗎？
昨天替一家大銀行做培訓。座上一位女孩子全程'傾偈'。奇異的是全場百多名參與者，只有她一個在做口部馬拉松(跟她聊的男仕是偶有回應)。我 'shh....'了她三次，她還是充耳不聞，高技術！！究竟是我們互相'尊重'？但仍需平衡其他學員應有聽課的權利啊~~~

快餐 Fast Food

什麼是快餐？根據Wikipedia，快餐Fast food (also known as Quick Service Restaurant or QSR within the industry itself) is the term given to food that can be prepared and served very quickly. While any meal with low preparation time can be considered to be fast food, typically the term refers to food sold in a restaurant or store with preheated or precooked ingredients, and served to the customer in a packaged form for take-out/take-away.

在香港，那些是QSR？吓！？還需問？McDonald, Burger King, KFC等等，對吧！如果你在這些QSR付款後還是要等上13分鐘，你的想法是......???  你估是那一家? (在油痲地) :(

I've learned

'I've learned that no matter what happens, or how bad it seems today, it will be better tomorrow.'

'I've learned that you can tell a lot about a person by the way he/she handles these three things: a rainy day, lost luggage, and tangled Christmas tree lights.'

'I've learned that making a 'living' is not the same thing as 'making a life.'

'I've learned that life sometimes gives you a second chance.'

'I've learned that you shouldn't go through life with a catcher's mitt on both hands; you need to be able to throw some things back....'

'I've learned that whenever I decide something with an open heart, I usually make the right decision.'

'I've learned that even when I have pains, I don't have to be one..'

'I've learned that every day you should reach out and touch someone. People love a warm hug, or just a friendly pat on the back.'

'I've learned that I still have a lot to learn..'

'I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.'

選擇 - 這是為自己的生命負責

女友說：「我放棄了令人羨慕的工作，跟他到國內，遠離父母，每天照顧他起居飲食，這可是我為他作出很大的犧性呀！」
這不是什麼犧性，這只是一種選擇。
當你作出的所有決定，都必須符合你自己的心願，才能成為自己的真正選擇。這樣才會感到真正的平等，同時也能嬴得別人的尊重。
不要讓別人為你的選擇負責，這樣你會抱怨很多。你送別人的一粒糖，別人不一定喜歡吃。要保持自己選擇的權利和自由，亦尊重別人也有選擇的權利和自由。
人生其實是一連串不斷地選擇的結果。

是儀態，還是兒戲

前天到觀塘一家公司做培訓，上課前到apm填肚。在附近的一張桌有兩位衣服入時的女士，其中一位做出很驚嚇的舉動。這樣的驚嚇埸面，以為只有在吳君如小姐的電影裏才會發生？！！無錯喇！！是挖鼻，並且是狠狠地，持續....
什麼是儀態、禮儀... 唉，見人見智。上海到處穿睡衣上街，又如何？！？！><

小時候，大時候

小時候，很敢想(勇敢地想)。大時候，很多感想(感觸、感嘆... 地想)。我偏認為唯有敢於夢想，才能展翅高飛，不枉此生。